Niklas Göke on Medium

Written by Niklas Göke

Niklas Göke on Medium

Everything I learned about love growing up was wrong
The reason I love that story is that it highlights that most of our talking — in this case 100% — does nothing to serve our current purpose. We talk about ourselves, about others, and about things we…
Your emotional age is distinct from your chronological one. You can be 43 on paper but behave like a four-year-old in how you treat and communicate with others.
We can’t outpace the half-life of knowledge, but we can change how we think
In business school, I became obsessed with adopting habits. I trusted the idea that small things done consistently add up to big things in the long run.
And the cure for what really ails you can be found in an advertising slogan you’ve heard before
‘Structured thinking’ is about building a big answer by asking many small questions
If you’re not happy with where you are in life, it’s tempting to think you’ve simply set the wrong goals. Maybe they were too big or too small. Maybe they weren’t specific enough or you shared them too early. Maybe they weren’t all that meaningful, so it was easy to lose focus.
"We drown not by falling into the river, but by staying submerged in it."
“We drown not by falling into the river, but by staying submerged in it.”
Instructions on a life well-lived, courtesy of a 25-year-old movie